submitted by marc4267 to asklemmy
107 points | 35 comments

I’ve realized I’m a very atypical person: talking to coworkers in my age range today I realized they have a better financial situation than mine: they are married, some with children, own their own condos, houses, or are paying a mortgage, but can still live a normal life, own a car, some even have the luxury of not having to work 40…

submitted by userreality to asklemmy
15 points | 10 comments

I genuinely don’t understand why society treats social interaction like it’s one of the most important things in life.

If someone spends a weekend alone, people assume they’re lonely. If someone has no interest in constant messaging, group chats, or hanging out every week, people think something must be wrong.

Meanwhile, a lot of…

submitted by BeUnique to asklemmy
34 points | 12 comments

I just had a really weird dream. One of those that you wake up and go back into the same dream later when you fall asleep again. I was me but surrounded by people I don’t know irl but I truly did in my dream. I was with a group of friends. One of them was going through a separation and we were helping him move out. The ex was there as…

submitted by brachiosaurus to asklemmy
77 points | 29 comments

submitted by TheReanuKeeves to asklemmy
19 points | 17 comments

submitted by Gonzako to asklemmy
33 points | 27 comments

submitted by OhVenus_Baby to asklemmy
10 points | 2 comments

I like community builders and games that I can keep a world for years and grow, watch it evolve. I enjoy Rimworld. ARK evolved series is good.

Bonus if it’s multiplayer capable LAN and not online.

Oxygen not included is nice but mentally taxing sometimes. I prefer laid back chill games with economy and farming. 2d or 3d doesn’t…

submitted by userreality to asklemmy
39 points | 17 comments

I genuinely don’t understand how people see social interaction as something beautiful or natural. To me it feels like pure obligation.

Even at work you are not really yourself. You are adjusting how you speak, how you act, and how you respond just to fit the role, satisfy your employer, and keep things smooth with colleagues. That…

submitted by merompetehla to asklemmy
22 points | 34 comments

looking to expand my horizons. My last 2 books: the power of introverts and the subtle art of not giving a f*ck.

submitted by d_o_o_m_g_u_y to asklemmy
16 points | 29 comments

submitted by mazzilius_marsti to asklemmy
16 points | 8 comments

I use Github for many years and want to move all my repos away from it. What is a good alternative, preferably one that is easy to push? Ideally i will be cloning all my repos to hard drive and then just push to whatever service. At first glance, there are many options: Bitbucket, Gitlab, Codeberg, Gitea…etc. I will be self hosting…

submitted by cinoreus to asklemmy
42 points | 72 comments

No saying politicians please

submitted by codewizard to asklemmy
23 points | 13 comments

@asklemmy is a laptop whose display is working no more still of any use ?

submitted by danhab99 to asklemmy
30 points | 24 comments

Guys I’m in a slump, I keep having the same fight every time I feel bored and want to go out to do something and I can’t because I don’t know what to do because I don’t even know what kinds of things I can do, like what classification of activity I should pick. And even when I do pick an activity class I’m paralyzed with the decisions…

submitted by Nfamwap to asklemmy
28 points | 20 comments

submitted by stemy to asklemmy
99 points | 73 comments

-Elephants can’t jump.

-Starfish don’t brains.

-Cheetahs are almost literally giant housecats: they purr, they meow, they don’t attack humans and are surprisingly easy to tame.

submitted by stemy to asklemmy
44 points | 36 comments

-Elephants can’t jump.

-Starfish don’t brains.

-Cheetahs are almost literally giant housecats: they purr, they meow, they don’t attack humans and are surprisingly easy to tame.

submitted by barkybeak to asklemmy
28 points | 13 comments

submitted by TheReanuKeeves to asklemmy
46 points | 30 comments

For example, you put yourself through university by studying hard and working full time. Then someone says, you should thank god for giving you the strength. Like wtf do you mean, I busted my ass day in and day out but I’m supposed to thank god for it?

submitted by TheReanuKeeves to asklemmy
264 points | 129 comments

For example, you put yourself through university by studying hard and working full time. Then someone says, you should thank god for giving you the strength. Like wtf do you mean, I busted my ass day in and day out but I’m supposed to thank god for it?

submitted by zachimusprime44 to asklemmy
48 points | 87 comments

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26 points | 40 comments

submitted by neo2478 to asklemmy
33 points | 25 comments

For my wife and I, it’s Big Vegan Flavor

Also if you like baking, The Vegan Baking Bible is a must!

submitted by Darkassassin07 to asklemmy
34 points | 20 comments

Finally dumped SwiftKey after being served with an ad for OneDrive inside the fucking keyboard itself. I’m still pissed they sold-out to Microsoft. (Been using it since long before that acquisition)

Now I need something to replace it, but I’ve not explored other options much.

submitted by StarvingMartist to asklemmy
15 points | 30 comments

submitted by IsaamoonKHGDT_6143 to asklemmy
11 points | 10 comments

I’ve noticed that people either accept or reject Supreme Court rulings, especially the most significant ones. But they’ve come up with a way to overturn them.

This proposed amendment would be based on the ratification provision in the Constitution, which requires only three-quarters of the states to approve an amendment.…

submitted by vk6flab to asklemmy
12 points | 22 comments

submitted by Arcanepotato to asklemmy
15 points | 12 comments

I have waist length hair. I don’t like how I look with no hair or a buzz cut, and I find longer hair easier to manage. I’m not dead-set on this length, it just seems the best config for my life in general.

When it’s not gardening season, I wash my hair 2x per week. I have a super low tolerance for greasy or dirty hair and this…

submitted by cinoreus to asklemmy
19 points | 26 comments

For me it’s the long term commitment, what about y’all?

submitted by over_clox to asklemmy
21 points | 12 comments