After doing a lot of family stuff over last couple of weeks, I’m finally back in London with a decadent weekend ahead. I’ve been reading a lot of bondage fiction recently, so planning to lean into that kink over a couple of sessions. Should be an uncomfortably fun time. While I’m not planning on any … Continue reading "Back in the Big Smoke"

By now it seems that every fashion / lifestyle magazine has done some variation on the ‘Day with a Dominatrix’ article. Today it’s the turn of Australia’s Fashion Journal with this article featuring Vera Beaufort. I’m featuring it here because I think it’s one of the better examples of its kind. Less sensational and voyeuristic … Continue reading "An Afternoon with Vera"

As I’m currently traveling, this seemed an appropriate image to share. One wonders what the storage arrangement inside the train is. Getting him into an overhead luggage bin would seem tricky. I’m picturing a special luggage van with rows of lock points for the wheels and the handle. Perfect for safely transporting all the slaves … Continue reading "Luggage"

Given I’m currently visiting the UK, it seems appropriate to rant about their increasingly stupid pornography laws. Last year they were targeting a ban on depictions of choking. Earlier this year they went after depictions of sex acts between step family members. That last one is particularly stupid because they’re banning the fictional depiction of … Continue reading "A Stupid Step"

My vacation is going well, which hasn’t left a lot of time for blogging. Hopefully, I can carve out some more time in next few days. In the meantime here’s some very cute and sexy artwork from the artist adeline.

My last post on the stress of submitting web forms on pro-domme websites was based on a true story. I’m off on vacation and had spent the last few weeks making contact with a couple of dommes I was interested in playing with. I will hasten to add that they were prompt in response, easy … Continue reading "On the Road"

An important lesson to learn early in any kinky journey is that no matter how hardcore you think your activity is, somewhere out there, somebody is doing a far more extreme version. I think learning that can temper the initial inclination to always keep pushing limits. It becomes more about finding the right limits for … Continue reading "Hardcore"

I hadn’t intended two posts on this topic, but here we are. Part of the reason is that Cosmopolitan also posted an article on it, and it contains just as much handwringing as they other articles I referenced in the last post. Apparently wrapping someone’s body in plastic wrap is a super advanced kink that … Continue reading "More Mummification"

The HBO show Euphoria is generating a bunch of coverage for its depictions of kink. It’s not a show I care to watch, so I’ve no idea how fair (or not) its coverage is. If the goal is controversy and debate, it’s certainly managed that. The latest kink it has drawn on is mummification. That … Continue reading "Euphoria"

From a modern artist in my last post to a vintage one in this. The artist here is Bernard Montorgueil, whose work dates back to the 1930’s. I think this is lovely idea for a drawing. You have the sleeping man and his dream, a beautifully attired but translucent domme riding his naked body. This … Continue reading "Dreaming"

Here’s a moment captured. Something lovely to start the weekend. I originally stumbled across it via tumblr, but a bit of reverse image searching tells me this is Madame Lule, a Paris based Dominatrix and BDSM coach. She has any number of similarly striking photographs on her site, which is well worth exploring. If you’re … Continue reading "A Moment"

There’s been a lot of jokes about Kristi and Byron Noem in the last week. For anyone that missed it, Byron was outed for being into some mix of crossdressing / bimbo/ sissy fetish. Allegedly Kristi was also fucking her advisor Cory Lewandowski, so there’s also some potential for a cuckold kink in the mix … Continue reading "Nothing Good"

Some beautiful artwork for the weekend. This seemed fitting to continue the theme from the last post. It’s by the artist Luen as shared here. The colors in it are wonderfully vibrant. You can find more from the artist on Bluesky and on Subscribe Star. They also have some fun kinky stuff available on Etsy. … Continue reading "In His Happy Place"

I found this Guardian article on the mapping of the clitoral nerves amazing. Unfortunately, I don’t mean that in a good way. The bits that amazed me were… The clitoris did not even make it into standard anatomy textbooks until the 20th century. In the 38th edition of Gray’s Anatomy in 1995 it was introduced … Continue reading "Medical Miracle"

I’m continuing the scent theme from the last couple of posts. After previously featuring panties and shoes, we’ve moving up the body to that other great scent center – armpits. I think they’re more of a niche interested compared to the previous sources, but they definitely have their fans. I couldn’t decide which image to … Continue reading "Sniffing the Pits"

That last post has inspired me to do a series on a scent theme. I don’t think I’ve done one of those before. Scent is one of those things that held little interest for me when I started exploring kink. Now – for reasons I can’t explain – it has turned into a major kink. … Continue reading "More Sniffs"

A post by Bacchus over at ErosBlog made me laugh: His Yum For Her Panty-Scent Yucked her. It started with a woman dumping her boyfriend because he sniffed her panties. Gigi on TikTok responded with a video that expressed some incredulity at that reaction. Quoting a bit from the transcription Bacchus provided…. “Girl, you just … Continue reading "Sniff"

It’s that time of year again. Tax season. My friendly tax preparer (actually recommended to me by a domme!) sent me the details today. Ouch. Normally when I get screwed it’s a lot more fun. There’s something particularly annoying about it this year. It’s one thing if I can imagine it going towards healthcare or … Continue reading "A Right Rogering"

I’m not exactly sure what this is. Weird femdom macrophilia porn? Strange fashion shot? An artistic statement about the perverse and exploitative nature of men? Whatever it is, it made me laugh. The originally source is Lui Magazine all the way back in 1988. I sourced it via labstrakts tumblr which, after being dormant for … Continue reading "The Littlest Pervert"

Kicking off the weekend with a touch of humor. This is from Luck of the Draw Comics. The imperial system of measurement being designed by someone focused on satisfying their kinks would explain a lot about it. Although having said that, the meter was defined as “one ten-millionth of the shortest distance from the North … Continue reading "Nice Units"

Something cute and sexy to start the week. This is by the artist Smutty Rogue, as featured here on Bluesky. I’ve been in a tease/denial kind of headspace recently, so this definitely appeals. You can find more from the artist via Bluesky and on their Patreon.

Here’s a final (for the moment) trip back down memory lane. In this case it’s a double header. The site in question (despite the image logo) is OWK aka The Other World Kingdom. Possibly the only Femdom site with its own Wikipedia page. They launched in the late 90’s and have published a huge amount … Continue reading "Lydia and Owk"

I thought I’d continue the 90’s theme from the last post. This is the unmistakable Isabella Sinclaire. I’m not exactly sure on the date or source of this image, but I’d guess it’s from the late 90’s. Her Ivy Manor series with Jewell Marceau from the early 2000’s was a treasured VHS possession of mine. … Continue reading "Continuing to Look Back"

I made it all the way through 2025 without featuring a single shot of a submissive posed as a lamp. Shame on me. My last entry in this niche but very important BDSM genre was back in December 2024. I think this is entry number 8 in the series, which have now spread over a … Continue reading "Lamp Revisited"

I thought this was an interesting Guardian article: I spent years meeting strangers for masochistic hook-ups. Was I a sex addict? It’s written by Leesa Morris, describing her experiences with the aforementioned hook-ups. She left a vanilla marriage and leaned in hard to her kinks and desires. In fact she leaned in so hard that … Continue reading "Masochistic Hook-ups."

Miss Pearl (via Bluesky) pointed me towards this excellent Reddit post. It’s a guide for what a submissive needs to do in order to get picked by a domme for kinky shenanigans. The advice is practical and to the point. I particularly like this bit… A long lasting relationship is built on two people knowing … Continue reading "Getting Picked, a How To Guide"